This is something life that we have to take heed on.  Its like a law in the universe.  Change your self, or other people will change for you or force you to change.  We evidently saw this in the last General Election, where the incumbent government were forced to change.  How much they will change is yet to be seen and experience.  It is only to be known in the future.  My neighbor just knocked on my door a few moments ago.  He wanted to replace the current stock fence with a brick wall.  It was something that I wanted to do for some time, but have put it off  because I was prioritizing financially.  Now, my neighbor is doing it and if I don’t do my side, it would be awkward, thus forcing me to change.  Another classic example, if you don’t change yourself, other people will change for you.